thanksgiving…a time we are very grateful for!…

november.  2011

Oh, Thanksgiving was tremendously amazing.  Probably different than most people expect.  With Jarom traveling Mon-Fri., and us getting two days to spend time together, get family things done, and do our church callings/meetings on Sundays, we don’t have a lot of relax time together.

So our Thanksgiving was stress-free.  It was just our little family.  We had the best Thanksgiving feast for as far back as I can remember.  Everything turned out amazing, and best of all, I didn’t even make a dessert.  We bought the large gigantic chocolate cake from Costco, and a pumpkin pie from there too.  Only two pieces of the pumpkin pie were eaten, but as you can tell, the chocolate cake had been munched on for days, and we still had so much left. 

I am very grateful for so many things, but especially for the gospel in my life, a husband who works hard for us, but at the same time, wants to spend all his time when not at work with us.  I love these sweet and amazing children we have been given.  They teach me so much everyday, mostly how I need to be a better person through their example.  I’m grateful for the choices I have made, and hope to continue to make good choices.  Life is great!

 How the kids were before I made them pose for a picture…

 Then our posed Thanksgiving pic…

 The most heavenly, decadent, chocolate cake on earth!!!

Cute pic’s of the girls…

hit so hard we were pushed 100 ft down a cement barrier…

september. 2011

We have a Yukon XL. If you don’t know what that is, it’s one of the largest roadside vehicles that you can purchase in America. Has a large steel frame, can run over Geo Metro’s like their rocks.

So in September, on highway 285 in Georgia, 4 car lane, we are in the farthest to the left, and morning traffic starts to come to a sudden halt. We brake suddenly also, and then the next thing I know, we are hit from behind, and are sliding down the cement block separator. We got hit so hard, we had to have been pushed probably 100 ft. I remember gripping the steering wheel, and hollering to the kids, “It’s ok, hang on, we’re in an accident!” We were nailed up against the wall, the whole left side cheek to cheek. I can figure, the woman behind me in the Ford Explorer didn’t realize everyone was breaking, and hit us full force.

Luckily, no one died or was injured in the four car pile-up that she created. Unfortunately for me, after the cop asked what happened to the woman at the back who started this whole nightmare, he came to me, blamed me, said it was my fault, and gave me a ticket, and ONLY me. Hmmmmm. About 99% of car accidents are caused from the back car, and he walks up without looking at any evidence, and tickets me.

So we hired a lawyer, went to court, and got my license cleared of any points. But at the same time, I question the justice? Where are my tax dollars going? Well, none of us probably really want to know that, but this cop said he had been doing this so long, he could just tell what happened. Obviously, his senilility should require him to retire early, and even the judge said, “Oh, Doraville County, that explains it.”  Blimey, the cop didn’t even write down the right make and models of the vehicle, and his accident report was as though a 1st grader wrote the sentence explaining what happened. 

I’m most grateful that we were in our giant beast, and that none of my children were injured. So our morning prayers we say together before we drive anywhere were answered.

This is how our car looked right after the accident.  Nothing was touched or changed.

Uhhh,  pretty self explanatory.  Everything is hanging by a thread at this point at the rear of the car.

We were the only ones pinned up against the side of the wall.  Everyone else pulled over as far left as they could so traffic could go by us easier.  The cop never even asked if vehicles had been moved after the accident.  Pathetic!
This is what a small car looks like after a Yukon XL is shoved into the back of it.  Thank goodness no one was in the back seat, and the driver was just fine.

mom and alex at spark 3…

october. 2011

Alex and I had so much fun at Spark. Jarom and I decided if we can afford to bring children, when they are 12 and older, they can come with mom if it still keeps going on that long.

Alex was one of two young women at the whole event. So many moms came up to us and told us they want to bring their daughters next year. Alex is very creative, artistic, and unfortunately for me, independent. Did I mention this is hard letting go as your child gets older? She didn’t need my help at all, in fact, I needed her help with all the artsy stuff.

The classes were great, the designers and people who have very successful businesses came and taught us some great projects!   We got hundreds of dollars of goody bag stuff to bring home, gift after gift after gift…but the only let-down was the snack room. Last year, it was stocked, and we could grab snacks anytime. This year, they would have an apple or cupcake or a small chocolate or something small. When you are there all day, 8am-9pm, ya need some snacks! But everything else was top-notch! Margie and the other women did a great job! I can’t wait for next year!

 Oh, my firstborn getting so big!  She is such a delight to be around, I’m so glad we get to spend so much time together.  She is such a wonderful person!

 Mindy Gledhill, a favorite artist of mine, came and performed again…loved hearing her again!

Our little wool craft covered soap…hand died from australia wool too…you wash your hands, it naturally sloughs off skin, and will shrink with the soap.  

 She-Art.  Oh, this was so cool and fun to do.  This is Alex’s, so great!

 Old vintage book you rip out pages and add cute vintage extra’s.  This was one of my favorite’s!
Amy Tangerine-super cool designer, taught us reverse applique.  She has gotten her designs into New York and Beverly Hills.
 We made our own rubber stamps…this was before the carving of the rubber began, and yes, Alex had to help me draw the Eiffel Tower.  Otherwise, mine would have looked like an “A.”

 Cute and amazing and such time consuming decor that always is so impressive!
 Alex with Margie-she got a $100 certificate for being the youngest person there!
 Sara Sample-another musician…her music is so cute and what an amazing vintage voice!
Here is Brittany from “One Charming Party.”  She has a very cute and successful party business online.  We met last year, and it was fun to visit with her again!

 What’s Spark without our late night visit the last night to “Dear Lizzie!”  Always the icing on the cake!

presentations on chocolate…

october.  2011

Sesika chose chocolate as the research subject, and who can blame her for wanting to know more about this delicious confection.  As she’s presenting, everyone is intently listening, except of course, Madison, who has that look in her eye of, “I know what we’re getting after this!”

camden turns eight and gets baptized…

october 9.  2011

Even though Cam turned eight in September, she got baptized in October so that her grandparents could be there.  We were also blessed to have more family join us, the Holladay’s and Peck’s, for Cam’s special day.  Jarom baptized Camden, and she was given the gift of the Holy Ghost.  What a special day for Cam!  Our four girls learned, “I Am A Child of God” in french for the musical number, and did a beautiful job!  We also had some refreshments after, including lemonade with licorice straws.  Why is that so yummy and fun to eat? 

southern belle pumpkin patch…

october.  2011

One thing about Georgia, it’s still hot and sticky even into October.  We came to the pumpkin patch wearing sweaters, and had to shed layers because it was still so hot and humid.

This was a gorgeous pumpkin patch, probably one of the nicest ones we’ve ever been to.  Complete with corn maze, tractor hay rides, games in the middle of the farm, fresh squeezed lemonade, pig races, pumpkins from the patch, and go-kart racing.  It was so nicely maintained, and was beautiful.  We had such a nice time, except for the sweating of course!

Mom and dad getting in a little game of tether-ball.  Do you remember playing this on the playground growing up?  One of my favorite games!

gluten-free pot pie…

october.  2011

Oh, this gluten-free pot pie was delish!  I think pot pie should have more crust to it though.  There’s never enough it seems.

Even though we don’t have to eat gluten-free any more, and having gone through that for quite some time, it has made me appreciate how easy meals are to make, now.  The gluten-free flour we used was delicious, and the transition wasn’t too hard.  I think the hardest part was that it was always tricky at group functions and parties.

But we learn and grow from the difficult things we go through in life, at least I hope I did from this one.  We definitely ate more healthy when we had to be gluten-free and milk-free.  Now I think about all the things we eat through-out the day, and there’s gluten in almost everything.  So I’ve told my kids that snacks are now fruits or veggies.  We aren’t always perfect with that, but we try and get those in a lot more.

Hmm, not sure what she’s saying with that pointy finger…but I’m sure it’s really important!

learning the art of writing and publishing…

sept.  2011

Casey Black, a woman in our ward, was gracious enough to come over and teach our group of children about writing, editing(always many times, which is great for the kids to hear, as we ask them to do additional drafts in school), publishing, and blogging.

Casey has been studying publishing, and even got to go to New York and study there.  We are very grateful, thank you!

alex and papa…

sept.  2011

Are we old enough to almost have a teenager?  It’s amazing how everything shifts as your kids get older.  You have to let control go, still guiding and giving boundaries of course, but letting them learn their own natural consequences, instead of as a parent, protecting them like we do when they are children.  It’s harder than any other parenting I’ve done.  It’s even harder to not argue with a teenager.  I am learning so much from Love and Logic, and if you have a teenager, I would say this is a MUST!  We don’t want to rule with an iron fist, or be a helicopter parent.  There is so much valuable information to help us learn what to say and do as our children become more independent, and learn the consequences of their choices, whether they be good or bad.

Here is an excellent article out of the Ensign…it goes right along with Love and Logic.

Helping without Hovering – Ensign Mar. 2012
http://www.lds.org/ensign/2012/03/helping-without-hovering?lang=eng&cid=email-shared